TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 8 days agoegg❌irllemmy.imagisphe.reimagemessage-square21linkfedilinkarrow-up1155arrow-down15
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minus-squareCevilia (she/they/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·7 days agoStrong agree. Even if it does turn out to be a phase, you’re totally allowed to change your mind on stuff.
minus-squarepooberbee (they/she)@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up7·7 days agoYes, I’ve put off lots of commitments where I wasn’t ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN because I was afraid to change my mind and look foolish. But then I’ve always admired people who could make big decisions even without perfectly knowing what the outcome would be!
minus-squareCevilia (she/they/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·7 days agoI blame society. People see changing one’s mind as a sign of weakness, they call it “flip-flopping” and such like. In reality, it takes guts to change your mind, especially over something so personal. And I’m tired of pretending it doesn’t.
Strong agree.
Even if it does turn out to be a phase, you’re totally allowed to change your mind on stuff.
Yes, I’ve put off lots of commitments where I wasn’t ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN because I was afraid to change my mind and look foolish.
But then I’ve always admired people who could make big decisions even without perfectly knowing what the outcome would be!
I blame society. People see changing one’s mind as a sign of weakness, they call it “flip-flopping” and such like.
In reality, it takes guts to change your mind, especially over something so personal. And I’m tired of pretending it doesn’t.