• baines@lemmy.cafe
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    3 days ago

    both of those sounds like a grate reason to be upfront about it with a life partner

    i’d be pretty pissed if i didn’t know by the time we’re seriously talking about kids

    and if someone is that dismissive about something and talking about ‘trans agenda’ now you know they are a bigot

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      2 days ago

      In my experience, talking about kids on dates is something you need to get out as soon as other basic compatibility is established. It’s an immediate dealbreaker for many, and it’s a critical component of a future relationship. If your date doesn’t want kids and you do, you basically skip GO and are straight to “okay well guess we’re just friends now” or “nice knowing you”.

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        1 day ago

        yep the big deal breakers should all probably air out early

        vds, religion, kids, trans, politic