• ℭ𝔞𝔱 @lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    It’s complicated…

    I’m attracted to guys who are kind of “bad boys,” which probably makes me weird. I feel like no one would want to date someone like me.

    I also feel like women rarely like guys who work in tech. Maybe they think we’re strange or not interesting enough.

    • gray@lemmy.ml
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      13 hours ago

      For me it’s not just for people working in “immoral” tech, I also don’t date cops, landlords, people in the military or fossil fuels (might make exceptions for this one). For better or worse, whether you choose it or not, a job is a big part of someones life and it shapes who you are as a person.

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      1 day ago

      I don’t think it’s that, it’s more like the intrepid dedication to work is a turn off for most people.