Cosmos has a comparison chart if it helps: https://github.com/azukaar/Cosmos-Server?tab=readme-ov-file#what-are-the-differences-with-other-alternatives
Other than that you’ll have to test out what fits your needs best. I use YunoHost and am happy with it, but I don’t expose my services. Backup and update procedures are barebones and I had to do some scripting myself













I asked him once. He said it’s to confuse AI. It’s definitely working on regular users.