Read here you little smart fucker. And read well. I’ve been in those exact shoes as you not too long ago. The only difference was i did chemical engineering. It sucked ass.
1st most important thing is reduce your course load. Yeah it sucks that you are going to have to delay your graduation by about a year. But I can almost guarantee that you are going to fail classes and have to pay for them again and delay your graduation regardless. Cut one class minimum, 2 if you want to actually kill it in grades and compression of the material beyond what the classes offer. I learned this because well I did it by failing and being forced to reduce the corse load.
2nd don’t take the classes in the given order from the school. For example. When I was doing Chem the school I went to set it as semester 1, math, applied Chem, instrumental analysis, organic Chem, lab tech, elective. Semester 2, would be math 2, applied Chem 2, physics, biology, organic Chem 2. Elective.
In semester 2, I would just dump biology,physics, and pick up instrumental analysis 2 , lab tec 2. This way my head isn’t running back a related, unrelated subject when I’m trying to focus on something else.
- You have a choice. You can do subpar for everything and see how that goes or suck at something, but be great at others. And it’s not just school subjects. You can stretch yourself between school, wedding, work, and friends. But that’s just gonna be subpar all along the board. Cut the social life, if your friends are any fucking good they will understand. Delay the wedding. Do you love your spouse? Do they love you? Good enough you don’t need to prove it to anyone by having a wedding. If that’s not an option. Well then delay it because right now school is the most important and you would probably want to actually be able to invest your self fully into the wedding.
This too shall pass and before you know it you will be back into the swing of things with friends and family.
Work what kind of work is it? Before I comment on that.
Also can you ride your bike to school. I found that to be incredibly helpful for some reason.
Oh, and don’t worry about being slow. I was slow as hell, I was always the last to finish my labs, did all my tests with acomidations. Handed in all my work late or 2 minutes before dead line… that might be a lie I think all my work was late. By like a week or a month sometimes. But if you talk to your professors you would be amazed what kind of leniency they can give you. Hell I don’t think I ever even submitted a single Wilye? Wyly? How ever the fuck those con artists are called assigment. It was worth like 10% of my grade. But at the end of the term I could spend hours doing some bullshit online quiz or keep writing my lab report, or reading for my next morning labs.
If a dumb fuck like me can pull it off you can too.
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