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  • People who claim having ADHD has benefits or is a super power are just saying it to make it sound less bad. The reality is that ADHD sucks. It’s not impossible to deal with most of the time once you learn more about yourself and how your ADHD impacts you and what can help you manage the symptoms. Every individual is different. And sometimes we just have to accept that we mess up and that, although we are responsible for those mess ups and we have to work extra hard to blend in and try not to mess up too badly, it’s also a handicap that we didn’t ask for.

    I don’t get why people say they have certain positive traits thanks to their ADHD. Why can’t it be because they themselves, as people, are good at something? Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses and every individual is unique. ADHD makes things more difficult, but not impossible. We just have to work with what we have and all we can do is try to find ways to get what we want in a way that works for us.
















  • I do the same. My husband calls me a ‘game hopper’ as I move from game to game and rarely finish one. I mean, I do usually get back to them. Eventually. But if it’s a game with a story it’s going to be hard to get back into it after so many weeks or months. Which means that it seems more fun to start over… meaning that I tend to stop playing around the same point. So yeah, it’s hard to finish a game. :D

    I mean, I really do want to ‘be able to’ finish games (I mean yeah I can…it’s just hard haha), but on the other hand, if I got what I wanted out of it, it’s not a waste of time or money. Plus I’m getting to experience a lot of different games instead of a select number of games, so it’s not that bad. :)

    I’m the same with books. I’m finding it very hard to finish a book, but what does help is using a read tracker app (the one I use is actually called ReadTracker. It’s on Android) to track my progress. Basically I can just start a timer when I start reading and when I’m done I stop the timer, log my progress and the app will give me an estimate on how long it would take me to finish the book (based on my past progress). This is nice, because knowing that it I keep going I’ll finish the book in 3 hours feels more doable than not knowing it at all. Plus I really like graphs and statistics and these kinds of apps give me that as well.