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Cake day: September 18th, 2025

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  • Put yourself in their shoes, some guy dates one of their daughters for 6 years and then has a breakup and goes for the younger child. Would you be fine if someone did this with your children? I would wonder about the motives of that guy and also that is also a real betrayal from you towards your sister. It’s actually a pretty fucked up situation that any parent would justifiably take issue with, I would never ever trust the guy, how long before he hurts the next daughter? Was he attracted to her when she was a teenager and waiting for the right time? Why should my other daughter have to see her ex every time with her sister, why would her sister think this is ok? And as someone older, the first year is always all roses and means jack shit. After several years you see who people really are and you become comfortable to be your true self, you don’t know the guy but your sister after 6 years will definitely know him. I would have a long talk with her, see what you’re really getting into long term. And remember your parents have experienced life, you see through a lot of bullshit with age, you’re practical still a kid at 25. I know I was a total moron at that age.