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Cake day: January 13th, 2026

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  • A 36 year old is supposed to act however they want xD There are some expectations about maturity in certain areas (knowing how to handle money, being better with social situations, etc), but stuff like posting online? My girlfriend has 2 Tumblr blogs because she kept hitting the limit of 50 queued posts a day, and she’s 40. Boyfriend spends a lot of his time playing video games, and smoking, also 40. I’m 30, and spend a lot of my time playing video games, and on Lemmy/Friendica/general web stuff. Hell, other person in my life (same age as me) has bags decked out in sanrio stuff, with cutesy stickers on every electronic device they own. I know people in their 50s, and 60s who do all this same stuff, too.

    I have a couple ideas on what happens with that, though:

    Idea 1: I think it’s partly perspective. When you’re 18 5 years feels like forever. You were 13 then! At 23 you’ll be old as shit compared to now! (Not really, you change a lot less per year as an adult than as a child, and teen).

    Idea 2: Different, but still perspective. My parents felt young as shit (my parents were 18, and 19 when I was born) to me because I wasn’t raised by them. When I turned 20 my uncle, who would have been ~40, felt more like an older peer than a grown-up. Why? I wasn’t raised by my parents! My grandma would have been 45 when I was born, and my great grandma (her mom) would have been 61. They’re who raised me. I always felt I saw the adults around me as younger than all of my peers did, likely partly due to that. “The teacher’s not old, my grand aunt still gets out there and mows an entire acre of grass every week, and she’s 50! The teacher’s not old at 28. That’s my mom’s age, and she’s still basically a teenager!” sort of thinking.

    You kinda just… Never stop feeling like a teenager, in a way? You change a lot, you mature, you get jobs, etc. But I don’t feel particularly “different” to how I did when I was 15. I still feel like me, just now I think 15 year old me was an idiot, one of my joints hurts sometimes, and I have carpal tunnel. You don’t really feel old until your age starts making a noticeable dent in what you can do, which might be at 40, but might not be until 70.




  • I’m not sure if bluetooth hacking is enough of a concern to be a problem? I’ve never heard of any major cases of it, and of all things, I doubt a music player would be a high enough value target for them to bother with? Could do something meant to spread to other devices, sure, but… I doubt the risk is high enough to be a primary concern.

    Semi-related, but I did learn something: The modern name for MP3 players is DAP (Digital Audio Player), which can help with searching for them.