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  • I get your point, though Tailscale specifically crosses a line for me in this sense:

    • Using code created/maintained by businesses: ok
    • Relying in infrastructure maintained by businesses: not ok

    I am not that big of an enthusiast, but the way I see it, if a company goes rogue and you’re using their open source code, it’s just a matter of forking it (I’m thinking about Emby/Jellyfin as an example) If you rely on their infrastructure (such as Tailscale servers) then you are at the mercy of the companies

    To that end: I’d say that OP is prettt on point by suggesting Headscale, you’re still “using Tailscale” in a sense, but without chaining yourself to the business




  • I’m also in my late 20s, and I’m an immigrant (changed continents)

    When I meet new people, ai usually have a hard time coming up with something to talk about, so I had (still have) a hard time making new friends.

    What helped me was to have continuous contact with people in a focused environment, for example: with around 6 months of office attendance I started warming up to my new colleagues (which eventually became friends), even though we were usually talking about work back then, we started to talk about it less and less up to a point where we don’t even work together anymore, but keep in touch

    I found another of such environments in sports practices as well: don’t want to talk about anything? Fine, let’s just keep this ball rolling back and forth" but then eventually (again after a few months of continuous contact with the same group of people) things started to warm up a little

    So to sum it up I’d say: patience is key, it usually takes a while before prople start to get along well