Edit: Oh geez. I guess I might’ve just gotten worked up on just the stigma. Hell, I wonder if I gave it to her now. I’ve slept around way more than her.

Edit 2: I cut out the whole long story because I’m a bit embarrassed to have overthought it so much and I guess it’s not really relevant. I’ll leave the post up so maybe other anxious people can see the responses.

The spark notes version is: I loved a girl and let her go and when she came back, she and I worried about her having herpes.

  • troed@fedia.io
    182·
    1 day ago

    This is one of those viral diseases that you’re unable to avoid if you’re going to have any kind of active sex life. Regular oral sex always carries the risk of transfer of “cold sores” (which pretty much everyone has, although some never really show any symptoms) to the genitals.

      • troed@fedia.io
        15·
        1 day ago

        AFAIK that’s not the same thing as “herpes on their genitalia” though. There are two kinds of the virus, type 1 and type 2. However, type 1 can infect the genital area and type 2 can (although it’s not as common) infect the throat.

        Receiving oral sex from someone with type 1 (“cold sores”) can give you herpes on your genitalia. It’s still type 1 though, and is thus not referred to as “genital herpes” since that’s the name given to type 2. Since many herpes infections are asymptomatic a lot of people don’t even know they’re infected.

        Confusing, yes.

          • troed@fedia.io
            3·
            23 hours ago

            “Herpes on the genitalia” still doesn’t mean type 2. We have no idea what type she has from the included information. Based on the number of infections of the different types simple statistics would say type 1 is more likely.