randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 16 hours agoWhat are signs that you may be more attractive than you think you are?message-squaremessage-square18fedilinkarrow-up160arrow-down13file-text
arrow-up157arrow-down1message-squareWhat are signs that you may be more attractive than you think you are?randomcruft@lemmy.sdf.org to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 16 hours agomessage-square18fedilinkfile-text
Saw this one on Reddit (don’t judge haha) and thought I would see what the collective of Lemmy thought!!
minus-squareTheReanuKeeves@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11·15 hours agoWhen people don’t generally initiate a conversation with you, it means you’re either not very attractive or attractive enough for a lot of people to be intimidated
minus-squarekender242@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·13 hours agoYep. Balance. More generally it’s all about social calibration. Get a good idea of where you are, then aim for the comfortable middle.
When people don’t generally initiate a conversation with you, it means you’re either not very attractive or attractive enough for a lot of people to be intimidated
Yep. Balance. More generally it’s all about social calibration. Get a good idea of where you are, then aim for the comfortable middle.