This sounds rather vain and I hate it, but when I was younger I was fairly attractive. Flashing a quick smile - the genuine kind, with your eyes, like you do when you’re happy to see someone - to women especially, but even men, would do wonders when I needed help.
Like in a crowded coffee shop - catch the busy waiter’s eye and smile, there was a huge likelihood my table would suddenly come next.
Of course being nice helps, people want to have pleasant interactions, but being attractive adds to that and gets you noted quicker.
People smile at more attractive people more often.
Not just on beauty, attractive can mean relatable too.
This sounds rather vain and I hate it, but when I was younger I was fairly attractive. Flashing a quick smile - the genuine kind, with your eyes, like you do when you’re happy to see someone - to women especially, but even men, would do wonders when I needed help.
Like in a crowded coffee shop - catch the busy waiter’s eye and smile, there was a huge likelihood my table would suddenly come next.
Of course being nice helps, people want to have pleasant interactions, but being attractive adds to that and gets you noted quicker.