Does anyone else see themselves in this article?
Don’t forget the chronic depression, crippling trust issues, and being perpetually single due to said trust issues…
Listen, I’m trying to doomscroll, not read my psych eval.
Note you can doom scroll your psych eval and have the worst of both worlds!
I’m married to someone who had to be the adult and take care of her family (siblings and mother) starting age 11.
My wife is unstoppable. But she expects adults to be adults, because she had to figure out how to be one by herself. And that’s where the resentment comes in.
Don’t need to read the article. Got shit from my father for using rivets when I should’ve used screws on my car. “Didn’t anyone ever teach you anything?” he said. No shit cunt, YOU didn’t.
Can confirm.
Protip to not become a resentful adult: Vent and vent often. Keeping that shit bottled up is the starting breeding ground for most of today’s personality disorders.
Quiet resentment eventually begets external aggression.
For me the quiet resentment has begotten a wicked dark humour, which I’m generally good with 😏
People tell me I’m hilarious all. the. time. Wish I was actually that happy.
They say the clown is often the saddest person in the room. It’s certainly true for me as well
Or just surround yourself with competent and responsible people, and shut out incompetent and irresponsible ones out of your life so you don’t have anyone to resent.
How does that happen, exactly? Asking for a friend.
You just do it. If someone is continually incompetent, stop interacting with them.
Tell me you’re < 30 without giving away the number. 🥴
I’m 44
