I think starting to understand how a girl behaves who she has a thing for you.
There was this girl at the office who is our team.
I was not observing a lot but she was siiting beside me most of the time at cafeteria when we eat. It just didn’t resgister on my mind.
So the other day, I was eating and there no adjacent seats so she dediced to sit opposite to me. But before her, her friend came early and placed her plate in the opposite. This girl, later came and pushed her friend’s plate awkwardly away and sat opposite of me.
Am I reading too much into this? Or is my assumption valid?
Every person flirts differently. But there seems to be a pattern here. Does she actually talk to you (like in a conversation) when she sits next to you?
Does she know you are single (I assume)? Do you know if she is?
Start asking about her interests, if there is something in common you can say “hey, I saw there is an event about that thing on a certain weekend, do you want to go?”. If she wants she’ll agree giving her the cover of the thing, not you. If she doesn’t want she’ll decline saying she has other plans for the day (and if she wants to go out with you but really has previous engagements she’ll propose a different date).
Best of luck!
That’s a solid advice but no I’m not looking for a relationship right now haha. I am just observing things and noticed this little thing. Currently, I feel like I have a lot things to learn and grow from before I consider being in a relationship. I’m sorry that I didn’t mention this detail in the post.
Yeah I know her and we met very recently. We don’t talk a lot but we talk. She’s a much more reserved person and I am kinda same lol, so we didn’t have many conversations.
Sounds healthy. You do you, and in this case that is good.
Maybe not. If she’s really shy OP might have to propose two or three things that might be interesting to her. Just don’t do it in rapid succession.