I think starting to understand how a girl behaves who she has a thing for you.
There was this girl at the office who is our team.
I was not observing a lot but she was siiting beside me most of the time at cafeteria when we eat. It just didn’t resgister on my mind.
So the other day, I was eating and there no adjacent seats so she dediced to sit opposite to me. But before her, her friend came early and placed her plate in the opposite. This girl, later came and pushed her friend’s plate awkwardly away and sat opposite of me.
Am I reading too much into this? Or is my assumption valid?


ask her out and you’ll get your answer.
lots of people flirt with zero actual interest. at least half the women who flirt with me don’t have any legit interest, they just think it’s fun and they are bored. easiest way is to ask them out and they say no.
every woman in my office who was flirting with me was looking to cheat on her bf… so yeah that sucked. they only told me that after we went out though.
Off topic, but “legitimate interest” has a really foul taste after years of seeing noncompliant cookie banners. (I mostly got rid of them with browser addons now)