To be fair, the ‘can trans women be lesbians’ question is one I had for the longest time and didn’t dare to ask.
Idiot teenage me assumed the wrong answer and internalized it as there being something wrong with me instead. It was part of the reason why my egg didn’t crack until I hit my forties 😔“yes, women can be lesbians. Shocking, I know”
“however they feel like, just like most people”
“none of your business, why are you daydreaming about other people’s genitals so much?”
I remember getting banned on reddit sub(r/traaa) for asking stupid questions before I knew anything about gender and stuff.
I mean this in the nicest possible way but there is a fine line between genuine ignorance and trolling so I, kinda, understand.
How I never got banned from Blahaj’s instance when I first turned up there is a bit of a mystery. I’d gone there for the surrealism of 196 and then there seemed to be a strange vague meta in-joke / lingo going on in all their different communities… I was a bit confused.
Eventually somebody explained it to me and I did a little digging and reading.
More power to the folk over there.
Is there some rich trans/pro trans person who is paying for operations that I can apply to get funding from? Cause these balls gotta go
I wish
when’s our esr? Every year there is a new kindergarten. Not expecting newer ignorances is kinda ignoring prospectives.
