The standard testosterone-driven penile stimulation orgasm - the one toxic masculinity has convinced 90% of men to pursue exclusively - is one of the ~5 small orgasms someone on estrogen has in the lead up to a proper one. Except because of the refractory period they can’t have a second one from penis/glans stimulation and anything else is gay.
So most men are in a permanent state of having stopped (their last round of) sex at the first orgasm, and that’s fucking miserable. No wonder they’re constantly off-kilter and desperate.
I picked my username partially because of this.
cw: sex talk, toxic masculinity
The standard testosterone-driven penile stimulation orgasm - the one toxic masculinity has convinced 90% of men to pursue exclusively - is one of the ~5 small orgasms someone on estrogen has in the lead up to a proper one. Except because of the refractory period they can’t have a second one from penis/glans stimulation and anything else is gay.
So most men are in a permanent state of having stopped (their last round of) sex at the first orgasm, and that’s fucking miserable. No wonder they’re constantly off-kilter and desperate.