I think I got a crush on my dance instructor. Which fucking sucks for all the obvious reasons. Normally I wouldn’t be so worried. BUT I JUST HAD A GODDAMN ROMANTIC DREAM ABOUT HER. Seriously I just woke up from a dream about her confessing her love to me and me eagerly doing the same about her.

So how do you stop a crush from developing further? Because this is a well from which only disappointment may be drawn.

Edit: I am single btw.

  • Paragone@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    2 methods that I can think-of that might work, quickly enough for you:

    1. deliberately develop a crush on someone else, like Lena Headey, or someone, whom you are not going to meet weekly, and

    2. deliberately imagine her having total romancing with someone whom you both respect, value, & wouldn’t violate-their-boundaries.

    Obviously, combining these 2 methods would be stronger.

    Salut, Namaste, & Kaizen

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