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Cake day: July 9th, 2023

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  • Top floor Studio apartment in a major city in an old building.

    • The units didn’t have individual thermostats so we were stuck with what the building set, but heat rises.
    • it was sweltering in the winter but when I opened the window, everything got coated in sticky black tar from the oil burning furnace
    • it was sweltering in the summer but electrical was inadequate for even the smallest window air conditioner
    • maintenance arbitrarily entered my apartment and smoked, leaving cigarette butts in the toilet.
    • when my lease was ending, sales would just walk right in with new prospective tenants with no notice and not even knocking, regardless of the law










  • Maybe a better approach is to find out what seems attractive in that type of life. You may be able to find it still somewhat near what you’re used to. Massachusetts still has plenty of small towns, lower cost areas, and rural areas, as do the rest of New England. But you’ll still be near whatever friends and family, medical care, transportation, be able to go into Boston if you want, progressive politics, etc

    Worst case scenario, the Adirondacks have plenty of cheap low priced places to live. It’s remote but not that remote nor that as jarring a change



  • I saw online a cool idea for “pinwheel burgers” and wanted to make them for my kids.

    • assembled them after work, had the younger one select and apply the spices
    • discovered most of the veggies were dead, and I never bought Cole slaw or cucumbers
    • put them on the grill but when I went to flip them discovered I’d run out of propane
    • restarted with a new tank but went inside because of the heat and humidity
    • came out to flip the burgers and discovered a raging fire, and burgers like hockey pucks.

    Luckily I had sufficient backup but after anticipating a new variation of burger and a new variation of Cole slaw, we had dinner two hours late, plain burgers, no veggies