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  • “Nothing happens in god’s world by mistake.” “God never gives you more than you can handle.” Etc etc.

    When 1 in 6 women has been sexually assaulted in their lives (and many men and NB folks), that’s a really fucked up thing to say. You never know what someone’s been through, and I’ve personally been through a lot of awful things. I guess it helps some people to tell themselves this kind of shit, but it is impossible to me to think of any kind of meaning that would make being a victim of violent crime “positive” or “worth it” or “a learning experience” blah blah blah. I think the term for that is “toxic positivity.”

    So either “everything happens for a reason” is utter bullshit, or god is a sadistic fucking asshole.