I’m not sure about you, but the best partner I could ever think of is one that is also your best friend; they are easy to talk to, comfortable to be with, you can joke with them, appreciate the world with them, and generally see them as your best friend, with the layer of also feeling profound physical, emotional, and (possibly) sexual intimacy. You genuinely love each other in the most pure sense of the word and can depend on each other more certainly than anyone else, because you can share anything with them, because they are your closest friend in the world.

However, most of it depends on what you want. Simply think about what you want most in a partner, and then look for that. Are you looking for someone who is also figuring out what to do in their love life? Do you need someone to push you in a direction? You have far more agency in your choices than you think you do.

Perhaps first, you should meditate on what you are looking for before you begin seeking it.

I’m glad you enjoy it! spread the word, help others find the joy of obscure bands!

they really do, but it seems they need more listeners to be able to pay one

The Belgian 80’s metal band Ostrogoth.

Their website doesn’t exist anymore and the only band-run social media page is on Facebook.

If you’re a fan of retro heavy metal, give them a listen! They still tour, though you won’t be finding much about it online.

I’m out of the loop, what did she do?

I just want to buy a 90’s car without a stupid iPad bolted to the dashboard, an electronically actuated parking brake, or hundreds of worthless, permanently enabled nannies keeping me from doing what I want to with my own car and making repairs hundreds more expensive than they should be.

bruh