

Self flatulation is so unironically funny in this context. I think you meant flagellation but really people are giving you more guff than you deserve over the situation. And your response was basically “well I’ll go fart by myself about it.” And like yeah, that’s about what all this is worth.
I don’t have so much advice around this because around the time I heard about incels I looked at the subreddit and the thought occurred to me "if I want to have any relationship with a woman, of any kind, if I wanted to relate and communicate with them, then investing time with a group of people who self professed an inability to do so would be a waste of time.
And like I dodged a huge bullet. At the time I was in a college dorm and around a lot of men my age. It was a stark difference in how they viewed relationships with women. It was girlfriend or nothing to them. Friendship was failure. Zero interest. That really weirded me out. I didn’t want to have that attitude.
And yeah it took me a while to fully learn good social habits, and there were missteps that I made along the way. But the basic concept of think and care about women as people and valuing friendship as it’s own thing, not as a failure to date, really works to avoid falling into the hopeless rage of inceldom.