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  • There is one source.

    I recommend reading nurturing our humanity. Primates have two observable social systems. And they both exist in all societies along a spectrum.

    Domination and partnership.

    The more domination based a society, the more everybody suffers. Including those higher in the social hierarchy.

    Working class men, they are in a strange place because they have hierarchical status based on gender but not based on economic class. This makes it difficult for them to find solidarity with women. And thus more lonely in a system of loneliness.

    Communists would blame capitalism of course, and they’re not exactly wrong because capitalism is a domination-based system. Marx called this phenomena alienation.

    Feminists would blame patriarchy, and again they are not wrong it is a domination-based system.

    So on and so forth, but we can take a step back and look at ourselves as apes and see domination is the problem. The will to power.

    Buddhism calls this energy Mara, and would call the partnership energy Buddha nature.

    It’s all the same thing, it’s a strategy apes use to relate to each other and survive. Partnership is a better strategy. Assuming your goal is the health of society and the planet rather than personal gain.



  • On the other hand, belle hooks’, The Will to Change, is one of the most compassionate and understanding takes on the subject.

    So she has an opinion on the validity of the experience, and it is that capitalism and patriarchy is alienating for men, just like it is for others. Especially working class men.

    Nurturing Our Humanity, co-written by a female author, uses system science and primatology to validate what men experience in domination based societies.

    I know your point was more long the lines of critics shouldn’t criticize things that they don’t understand, but there are a lot of feminists that do understand and have an informed opinion, because they study how these systems of domination affect everyone, not just women.