I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
“You’re autistic but won’t find out until you’re 33. Everyone else sees it in you and that isn’t a problem, the problem is you were born in Oklahoma and they will call you gay because they don’t know the slightest real thing about you.”
“Don’t become cruel. People may suck but they’re what makes life worth living.”
“When people tell you who they are, believe them. The good and the bad.”
Ah yes, all nonstandard behavior is gay. What a very intelligent and non-nonsensical way to sort the world. /s
Hmm. Good too? I usually take the bragging with a grain of salt.
If you talk about how you’re a cheater, or signal affinity with a hate group, or just are rude to waiters I’m certainly not going to forget that, though.
Don’t get hung up on “tell” meaning “words”
Ah, okay. With the bad stuff people do literally just announce it sometimes.