I’ve never had luck dating, I seemed to attract messy alcoholic women where I could tell why they were single. Not that I’m without fault as a person, but that’s who I met with online dating in my 30s.
I’ve had heaps of luck getting together with women I’ve known for a year+ through hobbies and interest groups where we got to spend time together getting to know each other without the pressures of judging each other as a pre-partner.
I’ve definitely got to do something about hobbies and interest groups. It always seems like the most organic way to get to know someone with similar interests …… but my actual approach tends to be “… at home” or “…. By myself”, and even at meetups I don’t do well at socializing
I’ve never had luck dating, I seemed to attract messy alcoholic women where I could tell why they were single. Not that I’m without fault as a person, but that’s who I met with online dating in my 30s.
I’ve had heaps of luck getting together with women I’ve known for a year+ through hobbies and interest groups where we got to spend time together getting to know each other without the pressures of judging each other as a pre-partner.
I’ve definitely got to do something about hobbies and interest groups. It always seems like the most organic way to get to know someone with similar interests …… but my actual approach tends to be “… at home” or “…. By myself”, and even at meetups I don’t do well at socializing