• belated_frog_pants@beehaw.org
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      Note the red cap. Hateful chasers arent to be empathized with. Racists often find people of color attractive sexually. The amount of slave owners that sexually abused slaves is innumerable.

      Sexual attraction isn’t a default compliment

            • Where joke

              No really, please explain the joke.

              Someone telling me they want to jack off whole thinking about me, especially someone I don’t know well, is nasty. Not in any way positive or complimentary.

              Chasers don’t deserve any positive interaction.

              I also don’t see any hostile reply, just someone trying to backdpeddal after their comment wasn’t as funny when other people see it.

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                The joke is they’re too cowardly to actually interact with us but they really want to it’s fine to disagree it amused me

              • The comic is a joke is making fun of chasers. It’s fine to make fun of chasers and laugh about the awful experiences we have.

                The person replied with a yourjokebutworse and people got mad because the delivery was so bad and there were no /j or /s indicators to make it clear it was even trying to be a joke.

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                That doesn’t mean it can’t be funny you know being miserable isn’t a virtue right it doesn’t make the pain go away nobody pa very few people pay you for it

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              No offense but I think the joke itself was a little clunky and awkwardly delivered. It just didn’t really land well for some people.

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      Big difference between being asked if you want to do something and saying no as opposed to volunteering that you don’t want to do something when nobody asked.

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      “It” in this case being an actual human being. If he wanted to masturbate to the vague concept of a woman with a penis he could give her any size dick he fancies without being creepy and transphobic to real people.

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      Another part of maturity is letting others live their lives without confronting them on the street like that moron.

      (Or at the bathroom door. Trans people aren’t out there with signs protesting cishets, calling them disgusting, or beating them up for existing.)

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        Can we admit privately that they’re disgusting and their culture is a fucking Miyazaki swamp even if we’re too polite to say

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          I’m cishet myself, mom and friend of trans people. And the answer is yes. But also, be careful because sometimes you don’t know when “we” includes one of “them.” I happen to agree anyway, but many don’t.