• maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 days ago

        i … i actually used to more than i do now…

        even posted about it here. one of my first posts - anyway

        yea im just not that much outside… and when i am kinda only seen by old white couples so- … yeaaaaaaaa-

        i just dunno what i should even wear so what im doin rn is to just have long sleeve shirt and - leggings… but hiding them under more regular pants… sigh

        i even stopped wearing the bras i got cuz i didnt wanna be too forward - its a lot and everything i do feels wrong

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          2 days ago

          I get what you mean about not knowing what to wear. I am allergic to spending money and suck at doing things for myself, so I don’t have an extensive enough wardrobe or enough experience to know my style. I’m also a shut in, so I put things off that I really shouldn’t. I don’t really have sage advice on this one, so maybe we can seek to improve together.

          Also, if HRT is kind to you, you’ll eventually reach a point where bras are necessary with most outfits. I can’t even wear a baggy shirt to hide them anymore; I need either two layers of baggy clothing or a bra of some sort. Also, they often hurt in the early stages even without a ton of growth, and bras can prevent them touching things.

          • maria [she/her]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            2 days ago

            well- my mother has pretty large booba so i might be lucky… who knows tho. and ye ive worn them essentially just for the pain to go down and it does! but since pain is something I can look over and… yea - thats why i stopped wearing em-

            might go back soon.