• ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Gauges, nipple rings, and clit/vaginal piercings. As for tattoos anything above the neck, above the wrists and genitalia.

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        Or, hear me out, they just don’t like them; only 1 out of 3 listed cannot be done by men (unless they are trans but let’s keep the topic less broad)

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          Okay, then maybe it’s that women have to be 18 years old to have them done and the worst, most insecure guys you know just don’t like being reminded of that?

    • applebusch (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      wow those are the most fun piercings though. maybe you just dont like women who are into other women? everything youve mentioned are things most common in bi/lesbian women. i get it we’re great i wouldnt want the competition if i was a dude (just kidding id still be into it).

      • Depends on why they don’t like it.

        I just don’t like piercings in general, because, well, it pierces skin. It’s like needles, which I too dislike, except this is permanent/long term.
        Imagine a piercing in sensitive area getting stuck on a thread sticking out of clothes. Yikes.

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              15 hours ago

              I was replying to this.

              Imagine a piercing in sensitive area getting stuck on a thread sticking out of clothes. Yikes.

              Some women love that feeling of the piercings on their body. Not the getting snagged part, but how it might feel rubbing against their shirt or pants. That’s why they get those piercings. If you don’t like that feeling, don’t get one.

              Pretty simple to just… not get one instead of casually insulting people who do.

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        Yeah, I think most alternative aesthetic decisions tend to be signifiers of queerness to others. Subtle ways that we tell others that we’re accepting.

        If that turns away straight cis men…oh well.