It seems like most of them are into femdom or have some really strange fetishes. Are there really so few guys among them who just want to fuck a woman well? Lol
Why are you trying to find that? I cant think of a single good reason.
idk about the overlap with incel culture, but any amount of time in online kink spaces should make it obvious that there is a massive explosion of submissive men seeking partners and not nearly enough dominant women to meet demand.
it’s not really representative of overall demographics, basically survivorship bias at work.
and there are a massive amount of dom men seeking submissive women who can’t find them either.
because men want sex more than women are and are far less picky about who they will have sex with. kink has nothing to do with it.
There are a lot of men who claim they are doms without doing the work. I can’t tell you how many times I indulged in talking with men like that who had no idea about kink or rules or power dynamics, none of it. They just wanted to be able to put their hand around my neck while fucking me.
I’m a switch and heavily involved in kink play. Those “doms” are laughable most of the time.
A submissive should never, ever play with a dom that can’t respect boundaries or doesn’t understand that submissives are in control of the scene ultimately.
because men want sex more than women
I’m sorry but that’s just a gross assumption. There’s also a power dynamic here that greatly influences things. Women don’t want to risk getting sexually assaulted or worse because they said no to someone with the emotional maturity of a child.
(Not into men myself, but am woman)
Genuine question: assuming you’re not a bit of a right wing nut yourself, and also not a radtrad… why are you searching for an incel in particular…?
I’m right-wing, but I’m not specifically looking for incels. it’s just that they tend to be much more interested in at least having a conversation.
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What kind of conversation are you looking to have with them?
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I’m honestly curious! You said they’re more interested in having a conversation, what kind of conversations do you have with incels?
conversations about life, sexting
Plenty of people, including men, are willing to have conversations about life and sext. It’s not incel specific, so I’m still a little curious what you feel incels provide specifically that others don’t. I wonder, do incels praise you more because they’re receiving attention from a woman they perceive as attractive?
They are more open and more interested in it, they appreciate it more.
Incel is an identity of self-loathing. If youre actually seeking out such a person without all that baggage, I’d drop the “incel” word from your messaging entirely. I say this as someone whose interests brushed against that community from the very beginning
I’d imagine fostering a deep hatred of women in an attempt to reject women before they are rejected and assigning blame to others for anything negative in their own lives is bound to allow certain kinks and fetishes to develop.
LOL
You are pretty much asking why the definition of a word has to be how it is defined.
So ‘incel’ basically means a guy who’s into femdom?
They feel they are powerless to ‘attract a mate’. With this stance they put all the power on other, hence the bias you’re experiencing (if this is real and not just a shitpost).
Do you mean that they think they’ll become more desirable this way?
No, it’s just bitter loneliness paired with externalizing the problem. Involuntary celibacy - they’d fuck around if only those pesky women were more loose - they feel powerless, thus the need for a dominant partner.
May I ask, why do you ask? I mean sure, incels are easy prey if you wanna get laid, but I bet they are a hassle.
