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  • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 days ago

    Gender is kind of fucky. It doesn’t necessarily matter to someone being trans. We know that’s a controversial take but what we mean is this: Gender and sex are both social constructs, therefore don’t worry too much about feeling one overarching ‘gender’ or something, instead focus on things like “what do I like to do?”, “who do I want to be?”, “am I okay with my body?” “if I am not okay with my body then why not?” “how can the things I am not okay with be resolved? Is it through learning to accept that I don’t have to look like people expect or do I genuinely want to change my body?” etc etc. We genuinely hope this helps.

    • Wutchilli@feddit.org
      5·
      6 days ago

      It certainly helps to hear that the "fuck gender, gender is just a social construct " approach is a thought other beings had :D. And to focus on single things instead of the whole picture is a good advice, makes it easyer to approach the “problem” so thank you.