Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you’re a femboy, you might find you’re a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum!
Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself.
For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I’m what I was born as. But wouldn’t have known that if I hadn’t tried some shit. You’ll know.
Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important.
It is of course fine and good to ask others for advice… but at the end of the day, you are you, and only you can really truly know, explore, and define you.
I’m literally the former. Am I an egg?
edit: /j, because in retrospect, it was slightly ambiguous
Order some thigh high socks and see how you feel
unironically already have them
Maybe try other traditionally feminine bits and bobs and see how they make you feel? Its your journey, you might come out of it as a super masc traditional man, you might find you’re a femboy, you might find you’re a transfemme, or anything in between or outside that spectrum!
… So? How do you feel?
Fully cis without even a trace of feminity /j
I now go shopping from time to time in skirt, wig, heels and high socks. What now?
How cis does that make you feel?
I second this advice.
Enjoy the introspection. Have been that way all my life. Ask the questions. Explore yourself.
For me it has ended up being needing actual connection after some neglect. never felt called to anything so I’m what I was born as. But wouldn’t have known that if I hadn’t tried some shit. You’ll know.
Healing process of self esteem can then make you like yourself. But asking those questions is very important.
2nd this, x100, x1million.
It is of course fine and good to ask others for advice… but at the end of the day, you are you, and only you can really truly know, explore, and define you.
We can only show you the button. You have to press it for yourself.
whoa, that’s a fun site! Was also pleased to find out the existence of https://turn-me-into-a-boy.com/
No one’s going to break the prime directive. Go do some research.
Haha I was only joking. While I am insecure about my looks, I’m fully certain that my self-esteem issues don’t stem from any dysphoria.
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Lmao egg irl always goes half and half for me on shitpost. Either jokes or real shit so sometimes I’ll miss lol
That’s only for you to discover and to decide.