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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 month ago

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone to egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 month ago
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  • алсааас [she/they]@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Unironically the worst thing to happen to me in life was this trans brain of mine…

    It lead to so much unnecessary bullshit, most notably severe gender dysphoria, which caused strong depression and anxiety which in turn caused me to drop out of school multiple times and to struggle even during an apprenticeship… I also was unable to enjoy life since puberty…

    I hate people who claim being trans is a choice with a passion as well as those who claim it’s a wonderful thing, all sunshine and rainbows or a “wonderful journey to discover themselves” 🤮🤮🤮

    It’s a condition I would not wish upon my worst enemy, much less myself

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      severe fender dysphoria

      seriously, gretsch forever

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        ? WDYM

        The F key is really close to the G one OK 😭😭

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          they’re both guitars

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            I don’t get it

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              Beeeg is making a joke about the gender/fender typo, playing off the fact that Fender is a company that makes guitars, as is Gretsch. So “Fender dysphoria” might mean that you were assigned Fender at birth, but actually identify as Gretsch.

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                Ah that is a good one LOL, I was unaware of both companies

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                We’re reclaiming the one joke ✊

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        Gregtech?

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      dysphoria is the absolute worst.

      I’m so close to being suicidal most of the time, purely from dysphoria. well, probably dysmorphia too. I got two scoops of body issues!

      and it feels so alienating. I live with a younger trans woman who’s supermodel hot, passes perfectly and has zero dysphoria, and thinks I can solve it through self-acceptance because that worked for her. the only space I know of where people vent about dysphoria is /tttt/, which is such a dangerously toxic cesspool of brainworms and bullying that it’s not worth it.

      bleufghjgghhjzzsghbb

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        I feel you so much OMG

        I’m kinda at this stage RN:

        That feeling when most cis femboys pass better than you. Okay, sure I'll go KMS

        And yeah /tttt/ is a dark place I used to lurk as a form of emotional SH a few times but luckily just uninstalled the client and never looked back.
        Dysphoria really destroyed my life and me and makes it exceptionally hard to keep on going at all.

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          when when when

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          what is /tttt/? 4chan board?

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            It’s a nickname for /lgbt/ because it has a lot of trans content

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        Sorry for the late ping, but I do think you can vent about your dysphoria on Lemmy/the threadyverse/on here as well, in a non-toxic environment.

        The r/egg_IRL and r/traaaaaaa hugboxing and general toxic positivity doesn’t seem to have carried over (yet).

        At least from my limited experiences on here

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