why is this not one way or the other?

addendum: wow, thanks everyone. I truly never knew it was a British vs. American spelling thing.

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    I know that this is “no stupid questions” but it boggles the mind that people post in forums when the answer is either yes/no, or a single sentence explanation available in a web search.

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      we should just not have Lemmy at all and only read news articles, wikipedia and talk to ourselves

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        I’m glad you asked. This is something I never realized how often I have brief flashes of curiosity about before I yolo it and never bothered looking up. As soon as I saw the title I was looking forward to reading what people had to say.

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        I would argue that the purpose of Lemmy comments is dialogue, not for other users to be someone’s dictionary

        • zeppo@lemmy.worldOP
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          Okay, I get what you mean about some questions. I don’t think it applies to this post. 50 people commented because they thought it was worthwhile in some way. It’s better than Lemmy being dead. To me, there’s an element of humor and levity to nostupidquestions, somewhat like showerthoughts.

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      Buddy we got the spelling from you before you decided to deep throat the French and copy their phonics and corrupt your own spellings.

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        Standardisation of language is not pointless. Shared standards serve concrete functions:

        • When 8 billion people write “colour” the same way, you don’t pause to decode variants
        • Technical manuals, legal documents, medical instructions need precision: ambiguity costs lives
        • Cross-generational understanding: Shakespeare’s English is already hard without adding modern variation to the mix
        • Standardized spelling keeps homophones distinct (their/there/they’re)

        Standardisation of language isn’t about one version being inherently right. It’s about shared agreement that enables function at scale.

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          And it’s agreed that both Grey and Gray are acceptable variants, and they will be right up until they aren’t for one arbitrary reason or another.

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    E is the European version, A is the American version. This sounds trite, but is true, and makes it simple to know which one to use

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        Are you being like pedantic or just trying to make it more simple?

        (Otherwise North America and specially the United States has the majority of English speakers in the world, so there is a realistic distinction between U.K. / European English and American English and both are equally correct evolutions of their English roots )

        Edit: downvote all you want, but I was just asking for clarity

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      . . . Unless you’re in the majority of the English speaking world, which includes India, Canada, Australia and New Zealand.

      Of course, grey is the appropriate spelling for all of those but Canada, which uses both.

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          What’s wrong with Canada’s weights and measures?

          Everything is in SI units.

          Unless you’re cooking, where heat is in Fahrenheit, solid measures are in cups teaspoons and tablespoons (but liquids are in litres and weights are in grams).

          Or in construction, where you work in feet and yards. Or measuring a person’s height.

          But while someone might be 6’ tall, their stride length will be in metres, as will their arm span.

          So yeah; simple. It’s not like Canada has tons of people weighing in tonnes.

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            A “Pint” of beer served commercially in Canada must be 20 imperial (UK) ounces (aka ~568 mL), with a 2.5% margin of error permitted within the law, unlike a US pint (16 US fl oz ~473mL).

            Just for fun, “Une pinte” of alcohol in French served commercially is “a quart” of alcohol in English which is double that value.

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            Canada said fuck it we use what makes the most sense for the scope and scale at hand. And then cherry picked everything.

            Unironically if you get your head out of your fucking ass for two seconds and stop being a fan boy for measurement systems.

            Canada has arguably the best worst solution! Its fantastic! And awful! I love it.

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          No need to downvote this comment

          Even canadians agree that we have a weird mix of different systems in play

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          Hey at least you’re not still measuring weight in stone. Nothing makes me roll my eyes quicker. Oh you’re ten stone? How neat im 2 boulder and 3 pebble.

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          henry gray, the author of the iconic medical text.

          albert grey, former governor general (ca). the grey cup (cfl championship game and trophy) takes its name from him.

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      But in certain circumstances, the Europeans will still use it with an a. Specifically, when referring to the color of a horse.

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    I think it’s a USA vs European English thing.

    I prefer the ‘grey’ spelling though, even though ‘gray’ is most common in the states.

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        Nah, I think that was part of the terms of Brexit, given more people in the EU speak it than in Briton they get to claim the weird spellings… At least they let the Brits keep there combined use of metric and imperial.

        /s if it wasn’t obvious

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      In all the languages that have the letter æ , exactly none of them use it for that colour.

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    I know it’s an American vs other English speaking countries thing, but as an American I can honestly never remember which one we are. I always used to look it up, but now I just shoot from the hip and assume I’m right, which feels the most American way to approach it.

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      I think that’s what most Americans do. I don’t think I’ve thought about how to spell it in decades. I just spell it both ways depending on the day.

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      16 hours ago

      When I was in high school, a girl passed me a note:

      Are you gray?

      Never forgot the spelling ;)