What do you think of “warm” stuff?

Can i break the 4th wall here and ask an example of what makes you so angry? Totally none of my business but do you mind for educational and relational purposes here?

When you’re angry, what general mood of music do you tend to gravitate to?

I feel like angry uptempo stuff is better for when you are not angry enough about shit. I’ve never sought angry stuff out to reinforce anger, like the anger to me has always seemed like a symptom of boundaries not being in place to prevent greater harms or annoyances

Absolutely NOT to discount anything here but thats my experience which has me curious about your position. Im interested in a general music mood theory but its tough stuff, everyone’s different and it seems challenging to universalize anything to any kind of global benefit or at least nominal effect

I cant define or explain it. You have to listen to the Mother 3 OST. Please do that.

Then listen to it on DXM or dissociatives. I promise you will see

What do you listen to when youre mad or angry?

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It can be problematic when there’s no established actual violation and you simply go along with whoever is doing the demanding…

People who demand apologies are seldom the type who actually deserve apologies. Discernment is quite necessary here, if you apologize unduly, you are setting a pattern that helps establish the response they expect even when they act unreasonably or uncivilly.

People who actually care about you and actually need the whole “showing them you care about them” are almost never the ones doing the demanding

There’s a Catch-22 or tricky situation with that but you can avoid much of it by recognizing close people’s birthdays, anniversaries, or other inside dates of importance. I will say anybody who acts like you’re in trouble or deep shit if you dont recognize them for some random date, they are probably trouble you dont need. That date is a power they have harnessed you with

Only if you’re advising on how to close all the bullshit loopholes you’ve exploited preventing them from being used further.

Sorry [Gilly smirk]

Ooh; Snortski!

Soooo helpful

If you grt the chance, listen to the soundtrack its a real trip. Particularly Bon Yoyage Amigos

Happy to be a positive influence :) keep adding to your inventory list here, might be helpful to others as well as yourself

Im beyond glad to hear that about boundaries and having that breakthru for both of you in coming to understand that. Its a very rare thing honestly, its like the holy grail of mental health and overall wellness in my very humble findings. It wont necessarily make you well or whole but it will prevent others from taking you down any further and will ensure you have an upward trend focus going forward

Keep going whenever you like by replying above this level so you can make a list for yourself to peruse whenever you need a boost for yourself and others can jump in if they have something helpful to supplement that

Aside, lots of people end up with little or zero eventual relationship with their children because they dont realize how kids grow up and start having a choice and being able to curate their associations to the ones that allow them to feel safe and valued. Sounds like youre way ahead of the game on that one

Stinky’s Inventory

Lets start now and you can come back to it however long that takes.

This can be you inventory, one thing at a time

Are you able to recognize what you’ve done right and well?

I know you haven’t done yours if you thought and verbalized that ;)

I dunno but it generally is good etiquette to more explicitly quote things think And it helps make context clearer

Love him already

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Why not Perish Song, faster and prob more painless